Honestly
some people are right chadders,
"are you a bit off with me?"
then you tell them, and they get pissed off that you're pissed off with them,
and go into defnsive mode, dismissing what you've just said, the reason why you're pissed with them
then its
"its not my fault" mode
then
"i don't want to argue" mode
and people wonder why i dont bring up why i'm pissed off with them,
could have easially been swept under the carpet, with them just saying sorry
we were supposed to meet 2 or 3 times, and you didn't turn up, didn't even tell me you were not going to, all 3 occasions
an hour in the rain,
evenings messed up
no text, no phone call
and you're now pissed off at me?